7 tips for Talking with your stuttering child

As many of you know Ben was/is going through a stuttering phase. I think that is is a part of lots of things going on in his life and is truly a phase. Anyway, I requested some information from the Stuttering foundation and it just came today. I thought that I would share some of what I learned from them. I actually think that Ben's stuttering has been much better this week and he has hardly stuttered at all but it could creep back up so here is some interesting reading

1. Speak with your child in an unhurried way, pausing frequently. Wait a few seconds after your child finishes speaking before you being to speak. Your own slow, relaxed speech will be far more effective than any criticism or advice such as "slow down" or "try it again slowly"


2. Reduce the number of questions you ask your child. Instead of asking questions, simply comment on what your child has said, thereby letting him know you heard him. Children speak more freely if they are expressing their own ideas rather than answering and adults questions.

3. Use your facial expressions and other body language to convey to your child that you are listening to the content of his message and not to how he's talking,

4. Set aside a few minutes at a regular time each day when you can give your undivided attention to your child. When you talk during this special time, use slow, calm, and relaxed speech, with plenty of pauses. This quiet, calm time can be a confidence-builder for younger children, letting them know you enjoy their company.

5. Help all members of the family learn to take turns talking and listening. Children, especially those who stutter, find it much easier to talk when there are few interruptions and they have the listeners' attention.

6. Observe the way you interact with your child. Try to increase those time that give your child the message that you are listening to he and she has plenty of time to talk. Try to decrease criticisms, rapid speech patterns, interruptions and questions.

7. Above all, convey that you accept your child as he is. The most powerful force will be your support of him, whether he stutters now or not.